Being Steven Li, you are seeing the world thru my eys, listening to my inner world.
Being John Malkovich.

我的野蠻女友

I have seen this movie for the 3rd time today. This is one of those movies that give me a different understanding every time I watch it.

記得第一次的只覺全智賢好可愛, 她演奏的Canon Pachelbel 蠻特別的, 細節上有蠻不一樣的感覺.
忘了第二次的感覺,好象只覺得為什么會有那麼奇怪的女生, 似懂而非懂

今天看的感觸,有些事我大概永遠不會明白, 也許也不會有那種耐心,胸懷還有體諒
或許是文化上的差別,或是女生的心裡永遠猜不到
但是女主角的心境是別人永遠沒法猜測
雖然她只是還活在痛苦的記憶中, 懷念過世的男友, 我看了第三次還到最後才知道.
在cafe裡有段話蠻感人 "女主角來自未來,和在過去. 我們活在現在,也許遇到為來的人"

這大概不是文化上表達的差別, 因該是男女之間最大的不同吧.
或許男女之間的距離只能用體諒和無條件的關懷與付出才能跨越的

順帶一提, 原文小說中男女主角後來沒有在一起. 女主角不會彈鋼琴,是為男主角學的. 女主角好象沒有名字.

希望人生中的個位女主角都有一位像牽牛情深又肯付出的男主角; 不管你野蠻不野蠻 : )
當你活在過去時遇到未來的人,希望他會耐心的等待你回到現在.

We are all human.

When we are weak, we all go somewhere, do something, or talk to someone for strength, support and help.

I do not have any religion or faith. I do however believe in a supreme being, may it be in any form or any religion.

When I am weak and vulnerable, I pray.

Last night I prayed. I did not pray for myself.

I prayed for strength, to be strong and bear through this.

But I know I am going to be alright by myself, with time…..

Then I prayed for her. For that god will shine a path, a way to find herself again. For her to walk out of her past and painful memories.

That one day, she can be who she wants and who she is.

Not experiences and memories which makes and shapes her that way.

Maybe she will find her way, maybe someone will help her find her way. I pray that god will find a way for her.

“He knows.”
“Of course, she is mum!”
“Wake up, wake up! You are going to be late!”