難道從生到死
天天在一起
就叫做有緣嗎?
不
由陌生到相識
由歡聚到離別
由相愛到相怨
都是緣
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
愈見離合悲歡
愈是牽扯不清
愈有
椎心的痛
刻苦的傷
緣也就愈深
"離合悲歡總是緣"
劉墉
Monday, November 01, 2004
Saturday, October 30, 2004
Being Steven Li, you are seeing the world thru my eys, listening to my inner world.
Being John Malkovich.
我的野蠻女友
I have seen this movie for the 3rd time today. This is one of those movies that give me a different understanding every time I watch it.
記得第一次的只覺全智賢好可愛, 她演奏的Canon Pachelbel 蠻特別的, 細節上有蠻不一樣的感覺.
忘了第二次的感覺,好象只覺得為什么會有那麼奇怪的女生, 似懂而非懂
今天看的感觸,有些事我大概永遠不會明白, 也許也不會有那種耐心,胸懷還有體諒
或許是文化上的差別,或是女生的心裡永遠猜不到
但是女主角的心境是別人永遠沒法猜測
雖然她只是還活在痛苦的記憶中, 懷念過世的男友, 我看了第三次還到最後才知道.
在cafe裡有段話蠻感人 "女主角來自未來,和在過去. 我們活在現在,也許遇到為來的人"
這大概不是文化上表達的差別, 因該是男女之間最大的不同吧.
或許男女之間的距離只能用體諒和無條件的關懷與付出才能跨越的
順帶一提, 原文小說中男女主角後來沒有在一起. 女主角不會彈鋼琴,是為男主角學的. 女主角好象沒有名字.
希望人生中的個位女主角都有一位像牽牛情深又肯付出的男主角; 不管你野蠻不野蠻 : )
當你活在過去時遇到未來的人,希望他會耐心的等待你回到現在.
Tuesday, October 26, 2004
We are all human.
When we are weak, we all go somewhere, do something, or talk to someone for strength, support and help.
I do not have any religion or faith. I do however believe in a supreme being, may it be in any form or any religion.
When I am weak and vulnerable, I pray.
Last night I prayed. I did not pray for myself.
I prayed for strength, to be strong and bear through this.
But I know I am going to be alright by myself, with time…..
Then I prayed for her. For that god will shine a path, a way to find herself again. For her to walk out of her past and painful memories.
That one day, she can be who she wants and who she is.
Not experiences and memories which makes and shapes her that way.
Maybe she will find her way, maybe someone will help her find her way. I pray that god will find a way for her.
“He knows.”
“Of course, she is mum!”
“Wake up, wake up! You are going to be late!”
Saturday, October 23, 2004
A wedding for one of my closest friends.
He is always the fast one, always the first to get things done.
I talked to him just before we got in engineering. It was a course for students who haven’t been in NZ for more than 6 years.
It wasn’t till year 2000, semester 1, week 1 I remembered that I got to know him. He came up to me in the engineering library level 2, and we started chatting.
We both had stories and experiences which we shared. I could remember the day before the Software Design 1E progress check, he helped me out to get up to speed. We then went to Planet Hollywood for a drink, and spoke about Macy Gray and music. He would come over to my place for drink and nibbles from time to time.
And we became project partners in year 4. I have come up with plenty of ideas and not a single result. It was July.
He came up with the first breakthrough result, and we took off. About time we started getting result since the project is due in September. And always motivated to get things done when he put his mind to it.
2 years has gone past. He now has a soul mate, with a house. Soon, it will be a family. Yet with me, stuck at the same place, unchanged at all.
I applaud you Kyusik. May the rest of your life begin today and flourish tomorrow. For the new life has just begun, two (with more to come) bonded with love, commitment, sharing, forgiving and everything.
There will be joy and sorrow.
There will be hardship and success.
There will be downs and ups.
But you will not be alone, for there is another part of you to share.
He is always the fast one, always the first to get things done.
I talked to him just before we got in engineering. It was a course for students who haven’t been in NZ for more than 6 years.
It wasn’t till year 2000, semester 1, week 1 I remembered that I got to know him. He came up to me in the engineering library level 2, and we started chatting.
We both had stories and experiences which we shared. I could remember the day before the Software Design 1E progress check, he helped me out to get up to speed. We then went to Planet Hollywood for a drink, and spoke about Macy Gray and music. He would come over to my place for drink and nibbles from time to time.
And we became project partners in year 4. I have come up with plenty of ideas and not a single result. It was July.
He came up with the first breakthrough result, and we took off. About time we started getting result since the project is due in September. And always motivated to get things done when he put his mind to it.
2 years has gone past. He now has a soul mate, with a house. Soon, it will be a family. Yet with me, stuck at the same place, unchanged at all.
I applaud you Kyusik. May the rest of your life begin today and flourish tomorrow. For the new life has just begun, two (with more to come) bonded with love, commitment, sharing, forgiving and everything.
There will be joy and sorrow.
There will be hardship and success.
There will be downs and ups.
But you will not be alone, for there is another part of you to share.
Thursday, October 21, 2004
"You make me want to be a better man."
最近的心情起伏蠻大的, 但再一位好友的開導下, 調整了心態之後,便的好多了.
He also made an interesting observation, that I have not been emotionally committing. Which is somewhat true, that I have not been really putting much effort and attention into girls.
It is also true to some other things, like work ethics. Back to basics, back to fundamental.
Doing the little things right, and doing the right things. Being focused with tasks on hand, and NO PROCRASTINATION.
Of course with change, the hardest part is keeping it.
I am going to commit myself emotionally in what I do, who I meet, and those I like and love.
"You make me want to be a better man."
Melvin (Jack Nicholson), As Good As It Gets.
最近的心情起伏蠻大的, 但再一位好友的開導下, 調整了心態之後,便的好多了.
He also made an interesting observation, that I have not been emotionally committing. Which is somewhat true, that I have not been really putting much effort and attention into girls.
It is also true to some other things, like work ethics. Back to basics, back to fundamental.
Doing the little things right, and doing the right things. Being focused with tasks on hand, and NO PROCRASTINATION.
Of course with change, the hardest part is keeping it.
I am going to commit myself emotionally in what I do, who I meet, and those I like and love.
"You make me want to be a better man."
Melvin (Jack Nicholson), As Good As It Gets.
Sunday, October 17, 2004
Saturday, October 09, 2004
Friday, October 08, 2004
Wednesday, October 06, 2004
SHREK:
For your information, there's a lot more to ogres than people think.
Example? Okay, um, ogres are like onions.
No! Layers! Onions have layers! Ogres have layers! Onions have layers.
You get it? We both have layers.
Orgres have layers, like onions. We may not know that there are layers for onions, until we peel of each layer and find a new layer.
Yet each layer of onions is different to another, the outside layers are dry and rough.
Maybe it is due to the environment, losing moisture and being in contact with rough surfaces.
Or maybe it is genetically designed as such to protect the onion from the outside environment.
Perhaps orgres have layers, only due to the harsh environment that the outter layer becomes rough and dry, like the onion.
Orgres have layers. Do you have layers?
For your information, there's a lot more to ogres than people think.
Example? Okay, um, ogres are like onions.
No! Layers! Onions have layers! Ogres have layers! Onions have layers.
You get it? We both have layers.
Orgres have layers, like onions. We may not know that there are layers for onions, until we peel of each layer and find a new layer.
Yet each layer of onions is different to another, the outside layers are dry and rough.
Maybe it is due to the environment, losing moisture and being in contact with rough surfaces.
Or maybe it is genetically designed as such to protect the onion from the outside environment.
Perhaps orgres have layers, only due to the harsh environment that the outter layer becomes rough and dry, like the onion.
Orgres have layers. Do you have layers?
Tuesday, September 28, 2004
Saturday, September 18, 2004
Started reading the comics Sanctuary again.
Now in search for a dream, a passion, which I can devote myself. Suddenly have an impulse to buy an one way ticket to maybe LA, London, Coppahagen.
Somewhere that I can find a passion or a dream, and find my way to my dream. And maybe it is in search for that dream, that good things in life will come by.
Now in search for a dream, a passion, which I can devote myself. Suddenly have an impulse to buy an one way ticket to maybe LA, London, Coppahagen.
Somewhere that I can find a passion or a dream, and find my way to my dream. And maybe it is in search for that dream, that good things in life will come by.
Tuesday, August 31, 2004
Monday, August 30, 2004
Love is a creature of myth.
For it takes a different shape and form to each and everyone.
There is an interpretation of each and every, their sanctum.
Shakespeare once said, love is merely madness.
Books, poems, movies cast a very different form what love should be like.
When Shrek met Fiona was certainly when Harry met Sally,
Yet, after “happily ever after”, there were problems, obstacles to be overcame.
In each stage in life, it means something different to us.
But I think love is everything and anything.
When the initial passion and excitement gradually wears off,
It is part of life and everyday, giving and sharing.
When you want to share something nice with them.
When you need someone to talk to for a hard day.
"By night one way, by day another, this shall be the norm
Monday, July 05, 2004
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